Yesterday I went to the dentist and she gave me 2 needles of anesthetic after the appointment I was so sleepy and I had a horrible headache and I wad so moody and sad and whenever my boyfriend says anything I'd get so mad and kept fighting with him
then I decided to drink to get rid of this bad mood and just chill
I drank a lot I was so drunk and started making a fool of myself then I started crying and yelling at my boyfriend ( I normally never cry ) I had the worst breakdown I've never been this unhappy and this mad I started talking about all the things that are bothering me and started talking in a bad way to my boyfriend and I told him that I regret being with him , after that he started treating me like trash and he was like " get in the car now I don't have time for you!" He was yelling and he took me home I asked him to walk me to the front door because I can't walk on the stars I was so dissy and he said " no my back is hurting me I'm not going to walk you up my health is more important than you are"
I was so happy with him I love him so much and I just fucked it up!
What do I do
I really fucked it up and I don't want to lose him
Most Helpful Girl
Just be honest.
Tell him "I fucked up, I was under the influence and that's not an acceptable excuse to be a complete and utter fuckhead (which is what you were acting like tbh).
If you truly don't feel the horrid things you were telling him, let him know that you honestly don't feel any of the things you said, and express to him how much you actually love him. Maybe tell him specifically everything you love about him.
Then let him have his space to cool off.
Don't bombard or hound him, because if that were me I would absolutely need a few days to cool off and think about stuff before I said something mean to be spiteful back.
Let him know that something like this will absolutely never happen again.
You fucked up girl.
You have to give him time and be prepared to face any resulting consequences.
Maybe you, yourself need sometime to gather your thoughts and figure out why you had such a meltdown. Something is building up, and you need to assess it, and handle it before something equally as shitty or worse happens.1
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