I went out on a date with the perfect guy. He is handsome and successful. However, he was too intimidating for me. He was disappointed he had to go and drove me home. He then asked if he will ever see me again. I said "no" and walked away.
I know I messed up real bad and I want him back. What can I do? Or is it over?
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Firstly, playing hard to get generally just isn't good, not in the way most women seem to want to apply it anyway.
Second, it's meant to be *playing* hard to get, the point is to have it be understood that you've essentially already been "gotten" but you two are just playing around and flirting until you move things along.
Third, what you did wasn't "hard to get" in any sense. What you did was put yourself completely out of reach.
I think you could easily fix it by admitting you were being dumb and want to see him again. Guys are forgiving. He wanted to see you again, obviously it's not over.1