I'm 20 and starting my third year of college, but I've found that girls my age really aren't into me. The thing is, though, girls younger than me think that I'm really special. There are several high school aged girls right now who are really into me. My neighbor is like 16 and is in love with me. But girls who are ~20, nothing. I guess I have a younger vibe, but what am I supposed to do? I can't legally date girls who are under 17, and I really don't want to date anyone who's not in college.
1mo I've gotten a lot of responses suggesting that I date older women. That's really silly, because if girls my own age think I'm too young, why would older women want me? It makes no sense, and for the record, the milf/cougar thing doesn't really happen in real life. It's a myth.
You may have to date younger girls if you want to date. You probably just look really young and seem like you're too young for girls your own age. If younger girls are in love with you, that means that you're attractive, but just appealing to a younger group. The worst thing you can do is sit around and be bitter about it, though.
Try dating a girl who's the age of consent, which I'm guessing is 17 where you live. At least you'll get experience and won't feel so lonely and left out. I'm sure that's a bad feeling, thinking that no one wants to date you at your college while watching all these other people get together.
The good news is you are only 20 years old! You have plenty of time to meet a girl. The frustrating part is that you are 20 years old and want a girlfriend right now. My advice to you, is if you are seeking a college girlfriend, then you need to really put yourself out there at events. Meet as many people as possible. Join clubs, study groups, volunteer groups. Get involved in co-ed sports, get involved in anything that gets you meeting girls. This will really help you to develop friendships and find relationships.
The reason it is so hard at this point in your life, is because most people your age are so focused on school and their careers that they barely have time for themselves let alone any relationships.
Try not to focus too much on relationships. Try to enjoy this period of your life.
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I think you should ask the younger girls why they like you so much. Sometimes younger peeps are more open minded, so they don't pick up on a negative vibe you may have that the older girls pick up on. So, find out what makes you attractive, and then improve on that to attract girls your own age.
College is a big place. You might just have to open up and explore and just try go after lots of different types of women. Don't get set on one type. Younger girls just like the whole older guy thing. Just put yourself out there, don't have an ideal girl.
Go for older women. Older men seem to show interest in me, and guys my age kinda over look me. In my case I think it's because guys want the materialistic girls who are my age. No one wants the natural girls around where I am.
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Maybe you behave n dress in a way that would be expected of somebody younger than you that evrybody sees you as the little brother at home
I used to play PlayStationnetwork on the PS3 and when I was on there I had to stay offline a long time because so many guys kept trying to ask me out and one of the guys was 17 and another was 19 and I was think 22 at the time and because so many guys wouldn't stop asking me out on the game I had to date the guys so that I would stop getting asked out and I told the much younger guy no and said he was to young and other things and I told him I tricked him and I stopped dating the guy and he got mad and then I stopped dating the other guy cause I wanted to be single and he got upset that he took his own life. as for your question you can date younger girls as long as there not under 17
I honestly wouldn't worry about it. I'm pretty sure there are a ton of girls your age out there who like a guy who seems younger at heart as long as you're not immature about it. I would not go after a 16 year old. It seems like a bad idea, especially since you are almost done with college and she hasn't even started yet.
Teens think that guys who are in their 20s are the best. I think that's when guys look the best. I however am not 20 so I can't answer why they don't like you, sorry.
Date older? You wouldn't be breaking any laws by dating an older woman. I had a similar problem; guys my age didn't like me or seemed attracted to me but older guys always have. I have been with older guys strictly for many years. Everyone this day and age expects everyone to be celebrity hot, model hot and it just doesn't happen. Find an older woman Im sure she will appreciate you.