I love my girlfriend and I know my girlfriend loves me but sometimes she does stuff to me to doubt her loyalty and her respect to me. She's had issues in the past while we dated in which she has said to me many times that she really admires some of her guy friends romantically. I have asked her about it and she reassured me that I was her #1. However, these issues keep coming up and I'm starting to doubt how much she respects me in the relationship. I trust her 100% with other guys and she hangs out with many guys but she likes to compare them to me. I don't believe someone could be this naive. I'm at the point, after 6 months of dating, of where I would seriously consider breaking things off.
Today, my girlfriend wanted to cook something for me and her mother has pushed her to do it. Yesterday she was really looking forward to doing it, however something changed today. One of her guy friends wanted to play Tennis with her during the time we would be having dinner together. She loves Tennis and this guy is someone she tells me repeatedly that he's a perfect doubles partner for her even though he and I are evenly matched. My girlfriend immediately replied to him through text saying that they can play during the evening, when we were supposed to have dinner. This really started to grind my gears because she tends to change plans at the last minute often regardless if it's because of another guy.
I asked her about the dinner, and she said it's still fine to have today in-between my class and her playing Tennis. That's not enough time to have dinner and I need time with my own friends. I told her to just forget the dinner and I'll spend time the evening with my friends instead. I decided to play with my own Tennis friends. My friends and I would hang out afterwards. When I told her this, she was noticeably frustrated.
Am I thinking about this too much or did she disrespect our relationship with one another?
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You are definitely being disrespected, and it's so dense of her to mention other guys like that. I think instead of ignoring and letting her pass every single time, you need to sit her down and bring up each point you brought up to us and let her know how you feel, becuase honestly, if you're at a point after 6 months to considering breaking up with her, then yes, the red flags need to be addressed immediately.0