Should you ever text a guy first?
we hooked up two weeks ago and I haven't heard from him. I mean I guess he's not interested anymore but should I even bother texting him?
Updates: Most Helpful Guy
No, when he's ready for a next hook up you will know
Most Helpful Girl
Well I suppose his not interested if he didn't do a follow up text. He got what he came for and left the building
What Guys Said 2
no wait bc the guy has to do everything
just sit there
Equality dictates yes you should send a text first
What Girls Said 7
I wouldn't bother. Why put effort on someone who won't even give you the time of day.
He ghosted. A text would be a waste of your time
Don't waste your time darling. It was a hookup. Nothing more, nothing less. At least for him.
No, sex is just sex to men... Leave it at that and save yourself the embarrassment.
Two weeks? I would have gave in after theb3rs day, guys are different now, he's prolly thinking you were the one uninterested, why not try if he doesn't reply back then there's your answer.
No harm in sending a text, but I wouldn't get your hopes up if he's not reached out after 2 weeks.
No don't bother.
If he's interested he would have already. He's not into you anymore. It's not like you guys had sex. If he's interested he'd be looking forward to have sex with you eventually and would have texted you by now.
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