I know this guy from an online dating site (mainly know for hooking up) but I clearly told him I see him as more than that. In the beginning (i. e. before our second date, so before we had sex) he'd respond quickly, like within a few hours. Now we've been on three dates and it's taking him more than a day to respond (I texted him last night at 9pm and now it's 6pm the next day - still no response).
He has a very busy life, though - he has his own business and is essentially always working. Is that the reason as to why it's taking him so long? Or did he lose interest?
Also, at first we actually discussed things on whatsapp, but now it's only about arranging things for our next date.
- He's just busy, don't worry about it.50% (2)33% (1)43% (3)Vote
- He probably lost interest and only sees you as a hookup.50% (2)67% (2)57% (4)Vote
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I will be Fair for Now Somehow, and give Tom the Benefit of th eDoubtful Thomas... Busy and is letting you Know too, he has Another Life and this is what it is.
However, to Keep the Spice in the Beginning of your Beguine here, dear, don't be so Easy and Stay way up at the Top of that Tree, where he Has a Harder time in Reaching you and Grabbing for you. You don't Want this Chase and Challenge to End.
You do Not know him well Enough to know this "Busy Beaver.' So play it Safe for now.
Good luck. xx0