- Do you list any possibly negative traits of yours in the description?
- How representative are your pics of you?
- Do you exaggerate on certain stuff and make it sound better than it actually is?
Or are you one of those who has only one pic and no description at all?
Most Helpful Girl
I have TWO pics that I use for any and all social media. They're 3 years old, but still accurate. I just don't like my hair in photos, ever. The hinge of my glasses tears out my bangs, but only on one side, so I've always got a mini frizzafro going on over there unless I've showered within he last half hour.
I put up very basic surface information, explain my frustration at how "no one ever reads these things", say to just message me and get to know me, then I throw in a quip about how I don't want kids, because I can never eat a whole one, and then I list off the most interesting hobbies I partake of.
Then I wait to see how many of them message me asking the exact same damn basic surface information that I have posted publicly, just to get past the awkward parts so they can ask for sex.
After that, it comes down to how many of the serious ones will ask me how many kids I have (0), which only confirms they didn't see the cannibal joke.
Fact is, if you don't notice the dark humor comments that I hide in my "about me", and appreciate them, we're not going to get along anyway because we will clash in personality...4
Most Helpful Guy
I have never lied about myself on any dating site. However, that does not mean that I have disclosed any of my negative characteristics. On a dating profile, I am trying to sell myself and any woman perusing profiles on a dating site knows that. She also knows that I have some negative features that she will discover if/when she dates me. Withholding information is not the equivalent of lying unless there is an affirmative obligation to disclose such information, and there is no such obligation on a dating site.2