So, I went on a date with this girl and it lasted 5 hours! We talked literally non-stop, but I didn't see any signs of attraction. She didn't flirt with me. I went in for a kiss, but she let me kiss her on the cheek, and she mentioned she's traditional and doesn't kiss on the first dates. (She actually mentioned that she's traditional even before me trying to kiss her.) Mainly because she grew up in a catholic family.
After midnight, she said she didn't wanna be rude but she had to go. When the cab arrived, she quickly said goodnight and left. There was no lingering.
Today she texted me a YouTube link. A music video of one of the songs she told me about last night.
What's that supposed to mean? Honestly, I didn't think I'd hear back from her! Does she just want to be friends? Or is she interested for more? Usually if a woman is not interested, the first date doesn't last 5 hours!
I'm confused! What do you think?
Most Helpful Girl
She's interested I think, or at the very least wants a friendship. She doesn't dislike you.
Sending you the youtube link shows she actually enjoyed talking to you and thought of you the next morning.
The kiss thing doesn't mean she doesn't like yo, some people just are traditional or not into that and you said yourself she had mentioned it prior, so it's not like it was out of nowhere she says that. In my mind, she could've just rejected it and said nothing (if she didn't like you) but she chose to explain herself because she didn't want to upset you.
But, just go with it. Say you enjoyed it, you liked the clip she sent, talk about that, bring up something else she may have mentioned (shows you were listening). Mention wanting to catch up again, perhaps propose a time.1
Most Helpful Guy
Well, it's possible she is taking things slowly but she doesn't dislike you. Surely she wants a friendship at least.0