My girlfriend accidentally met my ex and she is holding somthing against me. She obviously is angry but at what? The ex is a past that stays in the past but she says she feels disgusted knowing that my ex and i dated. Is it jelousy or insecurity or what?
Most Helpful Girl
She sounds extremely insecure. I would advise that you sit down and speak to her calmly - just explain that you do have ex's (as will she) and that is something you cannot change, say that you are not will any ex's now for a reason, they are in the past and that you have no desire to be with this ex ever again. Say she needs to trust you and feel secure in the relationship otherwise it won't last but be understanding and say that if she feels she cannot handle that and needs to end the relationship then that is her decision... you don't have to take my advice but that's my suggestion. To be honest with you though, her acting like this would be a major red flag for me about what she could be like going forward1
Most Helpful Guy
Probably insecurity or they became best friends and have been telling each other secrets and the things you've done. Yep...0