His behaviour is getting worst and treating me with no love respect for me? He wants a serious relationship but treating me like crap! it's been 2yrs we are together and his not even texting me that much and I have text him but sometimes his delays replying me. I been taking my time to wait for him to reply me it's like been so long. And I did call him but he rejects my call which I hate it and verytime he says his busy.. Argh.. I have some message here what told him yesterday how I feel. And don't kw my he laugh.. and he still doing the same thing.. the video call it really not impress just 40sec and he log out. ended up he saying the same question "how" like treating it like joke.
Does he do that all the time ? If he does, then he seems like a very narcissistic person. Narcissists don't care about you and your feelings. If they hurt you, generally they will not come to you and apologize, they will even not feel the slightest feeling of guilt. The worst thing is that they will probably never change. You might be better off...
I have to agree with @Newgirl1979 In addition... After the first text I would phone you and tell you never to do that again. I would treat you like a child because your behaving like spoiled little girl. Tough love!
Are lot of guys aren't really into texting. Might be reading too much into it. Best thing to do is not play any games (like some might suggest here) but just sit down and talk with him about it. How you feel, what he thinks/feels etc.
stop texting and phoning, see what happens, if you keep calling him you will become a pest, and he won't like that, be cool wait for him, ignore him, don't cuddle, say no to sex tired headache etc don't be to eager, let him chase you, if he doesn't ditch him
Sorry to play devils advocate but are you maybe being a bit OTT with your demands for more texts and video calls? I have some friends that are like that and it has caused many relationships to end because the man in the relationship feels completely smouthered. Have you got a close circle of girl friends? If not then get some and go out with them, don't contact him (be too busy out with your friends enjoying yourself!) and he might not contact you for a week but so what? It's only a week! Let him notice your absence and while he is having to work harder to speak to you and spend time with you then he will appreciate you more. If you bombard him with video calls and messages every day and you are demanding to know where he is then you will come across as needy and possessive and they are not attractive traits. Get out and have fun doing things you enjoy with friends and family and stop revolving your life around one person, good luck xx
Are you texting every other second or every other mintue maybe he's felling smothered. But if it countries I would tell him we need to fix this or its over. So many reason as to why the likes this. I would just try and ask in person.
No offence, but you seem really whiny and insecure. If he's stringing you along, you need to leave him and have some respect for yourself.
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