i didn't hear back from her after asking her out so im going to send this -
Hey, I thought give you space as I didn't hear back from ya, you free this week except Sunday as that's when I move, it would be awesome to see u before I go as I'm a bit nervous lol whether it's London or a meal at Lakeside? x
And you are? I'm a GirlGuys can not vote on this poll
... Keep it formal.. using "U" is so benignly unattractive. If my boyfriend ever says "u" or similar euphemisms, I go crazy... The x at the end is... Uck. 'Ya' is cute & casual. Stating you're busy Sunday is unnecessary. If she says "I'm free Sunday" then you say that... With a sorry first. The rest is not even needed unless she says yes. Keep it short & quick. In conclusion... You should say... "Hey, I thought I'd give you some space as I didn't hear back from ya... Are you free this week? Dunno what London or Lakeside is. If that's a meeting place, You'd say "Perhaps to go to [x] or [x]?"
I don't think it sounds needy, but the real question is whether she's interested or not. If she's interested, that messaged will be fine. If she isn't, then she isn't, and no message would change that unless it's like really really extreme clingy. This one is fine.
I don't think it's needy. Send it, if she doesn't reply then you've got your answer. I'm real tired of people saying people who make an effort are needy. Nah we just want to give people a second chance.
You asked her out. You didn't stalk her or date her for years. What space is needed? Unless you did stalk her...
Take that part out.
Then leave out the cheesey london lakeside part. Name a specific place and time. "I know you like jazz. I hear this great band is at the coffee spot down the street tues night. Want to check them out?" Thats how you do it.
just text her saying you wanted to know how she is since you hadn't heard from her and you had wonderful time with her the last time. Then if she gives you a positive feedback you can now ask if she won't mind going on a date with you whenever she is less busy
I voted "it's fine" as the message in itself isn't needy at all, however writing to a girl who did not write you back might very much very likely come off as needy, so I'd actually suggest you do not send the message despite the message itself isn't needy in nature.
How longs it been between? And giving her options makes it sound slightly desperate as if you've planned it out without her even agreeing...
If you didn't hear back from her if you were trying to hang out before that means she is not interested. Maybe skip a message at all. If you're this worried you sound like a sweet guy. Maybe I'm a bitch but sometimes if a guy is really nice and I'm not interested but don't want to hurt his feelings I act like I keep forgetting to respond or say I'm busy.