I have been finding for the last year and a bit that everyone around me (family, friends, strangers) are with someone and are in a happy relationship while I am single and alone. Every time I put myself out there I am either dealing with fuckboys or the guy I like only sees me as a friend.
I am a very confident person but it makes me feel unwanted and needy. My friends feel sorry for me because I am the only one who is single and one of them (who is younger than me) says, "oh don't worry, you're still so young" or "don't rush, you're only 21". Coming from someone who is already talking about kids and marriage...
I am scared that I am going to end up like some family members, which is all alone and without anyone. Any advice?
Most Helpful Guy
It will happen soon enough, I'm single again too and it's harder now at my age so you have plenty of time3
Most Helpful Girl
Its your mindset it what it is and I think you think to hard about this because I know who that feels and I have been there and done that. Start to look on the positive and bright side as you are only bringing yourself down by looking at everyone else and not yourself. :) :) :)1