Hi guys, need your help..
I just recently met this guy that I started to date. We've been hanging out and kissed but not had any sex or anything like that because I'm just not ready and not sure if I want him like that. I really, really like his personality, he so sweet to me..but he feels more like a friend, not a lover. However, he is really into me..and wants to be more than friends.
While hanging out I met his friends..and it just so is that me and his friend seem to have CRAZY chemistry. He is really flirty with me and I just can't help it but I want him! Now I really don't know what to do! I do not want to hurt this guy´s feelings and I'm scared that I will loose our friendship. I'm confused! Help!
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Theres an old saying..all is fair in love and war, however I understand your situation. first thing you need to do is break up with the guy your seeing. its not fair on him to keep leading him on like this.
Now how to get this freind of his. well obiously you can't just ask your date for his number becouse that's just messed up so if you havnt got it already you may need to take a leap of faith and try remember anything he told you about where he goes and what he does. in other words try to run into him again..
HOWEVER depending on how good freinds they are you will have to at some point deal with the fact (if you go through with it) that your current date will find out about you two. so you will need to allow time to pass. maybe try set him up with someone else at some point..
However like I said mens minds are very toutch about freinds and exes. even if there's no connection there they still don't like it so be careful