So one of my guy friends always tells me about the girls he sleeps with, some are one night stands and a few might be more than once but still meaningless. How is it possible that sex is just sex? Can it really just be meaningless?
Here is an example of meaningless sex... Nice party, people getting a little drunk... Female says to male, I have always wanted to jump your bones... It happens... Next day each wakes at their own home suffering from a hangover not really sure if it was a dream or reality... Each hopes the other does not remember... Tell me this has never happened before and I will call BS!
of course it can... if you really don't care for the girls' personality but want to fuck her because you're physically attracted to her... totally means nothing. I have to be attracted to HER (person) to have sex mean something.
Sex is like any other physical activity , it may be something special with feeling or meaningless just like drinking , some times you drink because it's a new drink and you want to try it and sometimes the drink is special like water and you can't live without it. I'm just curious why you thought that it's meaningless for the guy only and didn''t think that it maybe be the same for the girls he slept with too?
Depends what you mean by "Meaningless". At the end of the day, sex doesn't have to have emotion attached to it, and it can just be for the dopamine rush it gives. Sometimes it's just about satisfying a need, much like eating when you're hungry.