dated a chick in my 20's for four years and thought she was the one. Things ended up getting fucked up fast, and I'm busy with academics, so that was that. Still busy with my routine, not much time to get serious- and to be honest not many girls can empathize with my schedule but I've been trying to feel things out. Jumping from snatch to snatch gets old and trying to find something solid.
So I've been dating lately, and there's a reason these women in their very late 20's and 30's are single: they're out of their fucking mind. This isn't taking into consideration CEO/lawyer/physician women that are really into their field of study (kind of like myself), but your run of the mill attractive female out and about. I know a lot of you guys say "to hell with marriage" and all that, which is fine and good, but let me tell you something: unless you really want to stay single for your entire life, chances of you finding a quality mate as you age diminishes quickly. I used to hear about it and scoff at the thought, but it's true, the good ones really do get taken up fast in their mid-twenties.
Last night was my last straw, man. Tired of finding these aesthetic females that are literally insane. It's actually starting to worry me.
Are there really very little sane single women left in their 30's?
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women in their 30s who haven't had kids are a whole different level of dating. They want to seal the deal in a year and have kids firmed up with you--either pregnant or plans to be.
The fear of aging out is very real to them at that age in my experience. Dating comes across as excessively transnational with them. You can almost taste the fear.
I try and date girls around 24-26. Keeps things sort of sane. But let's be truly honest all the good/normal girls get wifed up before 25...
By late 20's there's a few diamonds in the rough, but you'll be left mostly with the single moms/Crazys.