They say, to get something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done. I've never been into sending nudes to guys, but i've been dating someone overseas for the past two years, its casual, but i'd like more. I dont believe our situationship is purely based on sex, but i feel i need to try something I've not done before. Although i am a bit of a prude. Im not talking full on porno pics, just semi nude suggestive... So Is it a good idea or not? Will he just see me as a sexual object?
1mo Maybe i've phrased this all wrong. Im thinking of topless but with breasts covered. So definitely more along the lines of suggestive... if that changes anything...
some thing sexy is never a bad thing, you dont have to show everything you can just do something erotic and creative. full nudes aren't that sexy anyway.
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It's not a good idea he could use those against you or put them somewhere on the internet especially if you guys were to ever breakup. You should value your worth, if you want to try something new make sure it's something good and not something that can turn against you in the future.
He will love it and honestly nay seem weird but you'll enjoy it as well. Unless he is the biggest dick in history hell appreciate very much and show his appreciation to you so it will boost your self esteem a little bit. I think its a good idea if you are ready to do it.
Whether a guy sees you as a sexual object or not really depends on each individual man. Some might appreciate it, some might just think that that's all there is to it, or that that's all you can offer - in which case they'll pry for more.
If it's "casual" as you said, I would say no. I'm all for sharing suggestive and intimate pictures, but not if they don't mean something to you. Wait until you have plans to visit in person then give him something to look forward to. (And I mean concrete, plane ticket purchased plans.)