The reason why i ask this, is because older women are still able to get dates, get boyfriends, relationships, or married, so i don't get it? people, society, make it out to be that women lose their value, attractiveness as they reach 30+, but yet, so many women are still able to go on dates, get relationships or boyfriends even as we get older.
Most Helpful Guy
This is easy to answer.
1. When men and women are young, men want to get laid - more so than women and this is because of testosterone which is flowing like beer from a
busted keg. Men have little experience with the costs involved with women nor do they care because, without that experience, all those costs are abstract. Put in economics terms: For women, they are at an advantage because it's a "Sellers Market". They can make demands and guys will put up with them because they want to "buy" sex - that is, get laid. However, as men age, they are less ruled by their penis and so it becomes less of sellers market for women.
2. Older men have experience with women. They now know and understand the drama and baggage that women have and can cause. So, no longer being ruled by their penis, they can opt to not even get into relationships - after all, it's cheaper and less stressful.
3. Finally, older women have to compete with younger women. Not just in looks, but in things like reproductive viability and baggage. In other words, in economic terms, it's now a "Buyers Market" for men and sex.
So, that's it really... with time, the sex/relationship market goes from a Sellers Market favoring women to a Buyers Market favoring men.
This doesn't mean it's all bad for older women at all. On the plus side, lots of older men enjoy older women because they are more mature. An older guy knows himself better and what he wants more than righteous tatas and a nice BJ are loyalty and safety and less stress. In other words, maturity. Older couples recognize the imperfections in each other and accept that. Also, older women usually have their shit together. Their experience and income and stability can be enticing to a younger man.0
Most Helpful Girl
I heard this too. Men get more established and wealthy. Women's looks decline... it goes by what makes the opposite sex attracted to you1