I was dating my ex for 2 years. We broke up for a month and we had no contact. She caught feelings for another guy and had sex with him. She was hurt and told me she loved me still and she regretted it a lot. I took her back but I had my guard up. We lasted for a week and then she broke up with me because she found out I was getting nudes from a girl during that 1 month of no contact.
I told her I didn't want her anymore and I ignored her and she started blowing me up calling me a douche and that she hates me. I told her I had a date & she was begging me for her name trying to find out who it was. (So I'm guessing she cares) after a day or 2 we went back to civil talking. As of now we're talking and I still have a little bit of feelings I'm not going to lie. She mentioned how guys hit her up all the time and stuff. I don't know if I should continue to talk to her? I don't want want to be friend zoned. We had sex in that week of getting back together but it took a lot more effort.
Whats going on? Should I continue to talk to her and see how it goes? Or will it push me further? She said she doesn't want anything because college next year so I don't know. Help please. I feel like no contact will make her hook up with a guy..
Most Helpful Girl
Okay, look. Break this up and leave her alone. She is playing games with your mind and your basically doing the same to her. This will keep on going until you two cut this immature baby crap out. She didn't really care, she was jealous because you two always had sex. That's what happens when you turn a relationship into a sexual one. She had no right to tell you about other guys hitting her up. That is a whorish move for her to do that. That was none of your business just like the other girls was none of her business. The moment you two broke it up, that should have been the last time you've spoken to each other. End it, before she ends you chance at getting away from her. She is so immature that she doesn't know what she wants. Let her focus on college and you focus on what you have to do, away from her crazy self.0
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Most Helpful Guy
"We broke up for a month and we had no contact. She caught feelings for another guy and had sex with him. She was hurt and told me she loved me still and she regretted it a lot."
Why do I see this happening plenty of times? Can anyone explain? Is this some kind of a trend?
Anyway the best you can do is breaking up with her and move on. She is clearly not ready for a relationship and very immature. She also plays mind games with you in some way.
Do not trust her anymore. She had her course selected and got what she had coming.
You're best off without her.
Go no contact mode. Things will resolve by their own if you keep going and looking forward.0