I prefer thinner girls, and shorter girls - and I recognize that this is my preference and that others have different preferences. This isn't any different than girls liking guys who are tall, or skinny, or muscle-bound, or whatever. It's a preference.
it sounds like this guy is into heavier, probably curvy or BBW girls. He's allowed to have that preference, and she shouldn't take it personally. Instead, she should seek one of the other billion guys who are now going to be MORE attracted to her after having lost 30 pounds.
She should let this ONE guy get her upset. He's just one guy in a world of a billion single guys...
I guess you could say that ideally, I 'prefer' a guy who's taller than me. Not because I need him to protect me or any shit like that (I gym it almost 4-5x/week so I like to think I could hold my own) but mainly because I've always been told guys would never want to be with a girl who's taller than them. That they'd find it 'emasculating' or whatever.
I kind of internalized that and would only consider being attracted to guys who were taller than me until I met my current boyfriend. Who's a bit shorter but right from the get-go, said that he loves that I'm taller. Or the long-legs that come along with the height, to be specific. So... yeah. In being with him, I've come to see that the only people who will turn down someone who they're otherwise pretty damn compatible with are those who allow societal norms to be the third person in their relationship. reactiongif.org/.../Whatever-eye-roll-GIF.gif
That is fucking hilarious. Sorry. That's what I like to call a cosmic joke. Lose 30 pounds in an attempt to become more attractive... guys aren't attracted to you because you're not their preferred, heavier weight. lmao.
I wouldn't go past a certain weight, personally. I've been really into a couple chicks--and we had quite simply amazing chemistry--who were pretty much just barely overweight, but it's my turn off, so I turned them down. I can't deal with fat.
The only time I'd reject a woman that is smaller than my preference, is if she's anorexic. I like skinny/fit, so anything smaller than that is anorexic. I would also reject a heavier one, like chubby+.
Well done on weight loss - If I had a preference, I don't think I would come straight out and say it, I would be like "Okay, fate has put us together, no harm and seeing if there is any spark between us"
Yeah, I wouldn't being ignorant with a girl cause I want date a heavier girl I would just simply say I think were not compatible for each other or ask her if she mind just being friends But in real life i don't date real thin females either i like a girl with meat on her bones or I prefer bigger girls.