I used to work at Walmart, so whenever management was nice enough to schedule me to work I saw dozens of unattractive people, men and women, with significant others. In fact, it boosted my confidence because while I'm not the most attractive dude on the planet, at least I did not look like some of them.
I personally think that there's something everybody can do to make themselves more appealing if they wanted to. Going to a gym and exercising, styling your hair, shaving. . . or if you like the mustache, buy some mustache wax and give it a nice style. When I started styling my hair and wearing deodorant, I noticed more women glancing my direction than before when I just didn't care so much about my appearance. Even if they weren't looking directly at me, at least they weren't turning their heads to get away from me.
Putting in the effort always gets you some results in my experience.
First all if that's you in your profile picture, you are good looking. Second there is a mate for everyone out there. What might be ugly to you might be beautiful to another man which is why you see woman you might perceive as being ugly. There is someone out there for you. Just make sure you are not focusing on just physical beauty. What makes a woman truly beautiful is who she is. Of course you have to have some attraction but there could be someone you wouldn't look twice at that will be the one that makes you the happiest. Women like a man to really listen and understand where she is coming from. They like a man that can be funny and make them feel beautiful. Really pay attention to her and be 100% yourself. One more thing. In order to make it work you have to be able to learn and grow with her. Both of you will have to change in some way to make each other happy. Compromise but still be true to yourself. You are lovable I promise. :)
the problem usually is, girls always expect guys to do everything, especially approach, and "love" doesn't only work that way. plus girls tend to fall for players aka alpha males, bad boys and jerks and not go for the nice guys. plus most "pretty" girls dont want guys in the first place. and guys know that so we leave them alone and wait to be chosen. because its always up to the girl to choose, even if a guy approaches.
No ugly mean terrible women also have boyfreinds and get married. It is more about you finding a guy that your compatable with and that likes you. Sometimes that search takes years and sometimes some people find someone in a few months of looking.
Nah. There's plenty of ugly and fat chicks with boyfriends. I've boned my share of fuglies. Itf you have no boyfriend, you are probably not seen as approachable. Or you seem too desperate. You've just recently hit The Wall, so guys may see you as looking to latch onto a wallet.
well i dont think its a rule to be beautiful for example my friend is really handsome but he is dating with a girl which is so ugly he is happy with her and they dont about what people think of them bc its about feelings not something else
Looks are a small part of attraction... intelligence, personality, and a sense of humor play a part also. Studies have found very attractive women have more difficulty because men are hesitant to approach them.
At 31 you already know the answer. Of COURSE there is nothing wrong with you. However I'm sensing that a part of you is liking your independence (takes one to know one) so maybe your approach to dating is different.
No, keep in mind that "pretty" isn't always the same for everyone. There are many people who've been single and in your eyes they're "pretty" and others not. I don't know why exactly you haven't, but the more you look for it the more unhappy you will be, I understand 6 years to you is quite a while but it will happen.