I'm 22 years old and in college and it's hard enough for me in the degree I chose to meet women, there is already more males in the 20-30 age range than females, though it changes when men hit 35 they outnumber females, but besides that I'm not only competing with guys from my university but other guys who are out of college I'm there mid to late 20s and men in their 30s who are already established, on top of that I can't hold a woman's interest the flaking is real and I can't blame women, on top of that I'm competing with social media, on girls pages on Instagram, a cute picture and guys commenting etc not including Facebook or all the other apps like snapchat or hookup apps, I just don't know how I can come compete when I have all these things going against me, to top it off I'm 5'3, any words of encouragement or how I keep up with all this competition.
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Step 1. Stop worrying about other guys.
That's it. If you're worried about how you compare to others that usually shows in you being really insecure. And that's not attractive at all. Getting a girlfriend shouldn't be your top priority. Your top priority should be yourself, do things that you enjoy doing, travel, do new things, talk to new people and just become an interesting person that way. The reason girls lose interest you is not because they are thinking about other guys, they just don't find you interesting, possibly because you're too worried about how you compare to others.0