So I started talking to this guy. I initiated contact and asked him to lunch. We hit it off and have met up 3 times since. I'm very confused about his texting patterns. He will text me, I will reply and then he won't text me back for a few hours. He ALWAYS waits to reply to my texts anywhere from an hour to 24 hours. I'm also doing the same because I'm not going to immediately respond to a a guy who who won't repond right back to me and I'm also not a needy texter so I will not send a follow up message. If I don't text him at all he will text me every two days and always try to make plans with me on The weekend. What's the deal? Is he a bad texter or just not into me?
Most Helpful Guy
"I'm also doing the same because I'm not going to immediately respond to a a guy who who won't respond right back to me." Good relationships aren't built on bad game playing.
Why are you texting instead of talking on the phone? Are you a bad talker? You could accomplish so much more by having actual conversations instead of playing this text game.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Should've stuck to your guns about the "dates before sex" thing. It's difficult to tell if he's a bad texter because he already hit it and is probably not taking you as seriously anymore. If he's at least trying to see you again and making plans, that's a good sign but it's really too early to tell. Don't get your hopes up and like the other pink said, keep your options open.0