Was I stupid to give a cheater a second chance?

he cheated on me with my bestfriend

  • yes
    88% (15)95% (19)92% (34)Vote
  • no
    12% (2)5% (1)8% (3)Vote
And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Can you really trust him ever again? Will the relationship ever be the same as it was? Is the answer to both of these questions "no?"

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    • 2mo

      i could and yes it could be if we didn't break up a week later

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah it was pretty dumb but the important thing to take away isn't "grrrr I made such a bad choice" it's "wow I learned an important lesson and I'm never going to let anyone treat me that way again"

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What Guys Said 4

  • You're just too nice, and forgiving, but if he does it again then kick his balls and dump him😠

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  • I forgave my cheating wife. (I hit the wrong answer.. it moved.)

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  • A cheater always cheats again

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  • yes u are atupid for doin that

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What Girls Said 3

  • Yes.
    1. He cheated, that's pretty shitty in itself.
    2. He cheated /with your best friend/. So that's double as shitty.
    Personally, I believe in second chances, but with deliberate cheating I draw the line.

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  • does he cheat again? If yes your a idiot.
    If no then not.
    I give a second chance to a guy who cheat on me too. He doesn't have cheat anymore since then. He was so afraid to lose me that he become super clingy.

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