If a girl has never been approached by a guy before, but she wants to date, should she ask guys out first or keep waiting until a guy approaches her first?
- Approach guys first.85% (11)87% (20)86% (31)Vote
- Keep waiting, because someone will eventually approach her.15% (2)13% (3)14% (5)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
There's no problem with the girl asking first cause sometimes the guy is really shy (raises hand: guilty) even though he likes her. So if the girl likes him back, I see no problem with the girl making the first move. And really, I don't want a girl to wait for me to make the first move. If she likes me, I want to know0
Most Helpful Girl
I say go for it! It's scary at first, and you might not be successful the first few times you approach guys, but after a while you get more comfortable doing it, the guys see that you are comfortable, and are more likely to say yes.
Some people will say that if you approach the guy that will "scare him off," but if he doesn't like confident women then that's not someone you want to date, and you're better off without him.1