As a bisexual person, I would like to know what runs through a person's mind when they find out I am bi. Would this cause you to not want to date them? What are your first thoughts when you hear "bisexual"? Please be completely honest.
To each their own. Doesn't bother me however I probably wouldn't date them as I don't have both parts. I think a bisexual can't be truly be happy with just one gender, the whole point of being bi is two enjoy both sexes and that's hard to do if your in a committed relationship.
Being bisexual myself, I think we're perceived badly in society. Men either won't date us because they actually believe that because we're attracted to women we will be more likely to cheat on them. Which is completely false because cheating has nothing to do with how you identify, it has to do with your own self, your morals and principles. Or they will perceive us as extremely sexual beings. An ex of mine, when I told him even made the comment about threesomes. I was just like... *sigh*
Lesbians aren't really so happy about us at all. In fact, I saw this video on their opinions of bisexuals that saddened me so much... They said they thought we're disgusting because we've been with men before. And that's just so sad.
As for what I think of us... I think we're amazing. And brave. And accepting of all the beauty in the world. We deserve way more love than we're getting. And to be honest, people care way too much about little things like this than the actual human being in front of them. And that's the real issue.
Honestly, I don't really think anything of it. And that's not because it's the PC thing to say or whatever; I literally just don't care what people do in their own private lives.
When it comes to dating a bisexual woman, I'd be totally fine with it. My only qualifiers are that I'm not gonna be shared and I'm not gonna share, but that's something I'd require of a heterosexual partner too. It's really no different.
Its weird, I wouldn't like to have "male bi" friend cause I may not know if he will like me or not so it sucks. However I'd be friend with bi women, I don't have any idea about relationship but I prefer straight woman.
Honestly, it shouldn't effect anything. You are who you are! If somebody is hesitant because of your preferences, they weren't worth your time anyways. Stop caring what anybody else thinks. Do what makes YOU happy!!
Honestly the thought of dating a guy who is bisexual just doesn't appeal to me. It's not that I have anything against bisexual people it's just that I don't think I could get over the fact that my boyfriend also likes dick and may have possibly had one in his orifices. If I met a guy I really liked but he happened to be bisexual then I'd definitely consider it, but as of right now that hasn't happened yet. I have tons of bisexual friends but most of them prefer their same gender more than the opposite. My best female friend is bisexual. I have 4 close male bisexual friends but they all prefer guys.
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