As a bisexual person, I would like to know what runs through a person's mind when they find out I am bi. Would this cause you to not want to date them? What are your first thoughts when you hear "bisexual"? Please be completely honest.
Most Helpful Guy
To each their own. Doesn't bother me however I probably wouldn't date them as I don't have both parts. I think a bisexual can't be truly be happy with just one gender, the whole point of being bi is two enjoy both sexes and that's hard to do if your in a committed relationship.1
Most Helpful Girl
Being bisexual myself, I think we're perceived badly in society. Men either won't date us because they actually believe that because we're attracted to women we will be more likely to cheat on them. Which is completely false because cheating has nothing to do with how you identify, it has to do with your own self, your morals and principles. Or they will perceive us as extremely sexual beings. An ex of mine, when I told him even made the comment about threesomes. I was just like... *sigh*
Lesbians aren't really so happy about us at all. In fact, I saw this video on their opinions of bisexuals that saddened me so much... They said they thought we're disgusting because we've been with men before. And that's just so sad.
As for what I think of us... I think we're amazing. And brave. And accepting of all the beauty in the world. We deserve way more love than we're getting. And to be honest, people care way too much about little things like this than the actual human being in front of them. And that's the real issue.1
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