What are your thoughts on bisexual people?

[Derpyanus]

As a bisexual person, I would like to know what runs through a person's mind when they find out I am bi. Would this cause you to not want to date them? What are your first thoughts when you hear "bisexual"? Please be completely honest.

[margarida]

Being bisexual myself, I think we're perceived badly in society. Men either won't date us because they actually believe that because we're attracted to women we will be more likely to cheat on them. Which is completely false because cheating has nothing to do with how you identify, it has to do with your own self, your morals and principles. Or they will perceive us as extremely sexual beings. An ex of mine, when I told him even made the comment about threesomes. I was just like... *sigh*

Lesbians aren't really so happy about us at all. In fact, I saw this video on their opinions of bisexuals that saddened me so much... They said they thought we're disgusting because we've been with men before. And that's just so sad.

As for what I think of us... I think we're amazing. And brave. And accepting of all the beauty in the world. We deserve way more love than we're getting. And to be honest, people care way too much about little things like this than the actual human being in front of them. And that's the real issue.

[Derpyanus]

Yeah, I think I know the video you saw. I would think that they would understand but nope

[margarida]

I mean, I don't get it though. Bisexuality as been around for centuries. The Romans for example. Mythology features widely bisexual relationships. I don't know why it's still not accepted as it should be.

[Derpyanus]

Yeah, I mean is it that hard to understand that someone likes both?

[margarida]

The human mind is very complicated...

[Anonymous]

Honestly the thought of dating a guy who is bisexual just doesn't appeal to me. It's not that I have anything against bisexual people it's just that I don't think I could get over the fact that my boyfriend also likes dick and may have possibly had one in his orifices. If I met a guy I really liked but he happened to be bisexual then I'd definitely consider it, but as of right now that hasn't happened yet. I have tons of bisexual friends but most of them prefer their same gender more than the opposite. My best female friend is bisexual. I have 4 close male bisexual friends but they all prefer guys.

[Oldandconfused]

Honestly, it shouldn't effect anything. You are who you are! If somebody is hesitant because of your preferences, they weren't worth your time anyways. Stop caring what anybody else thinks. Do what makes YOU happy!!

[Derpyanus]

It shouldn't but as you can see in the opinions people don't really want to be with a bisexual lol.

[Oldandconfused]

Somebody does and will!!

[Oldandconfused]

Fuck the opinions!!

[DodgersGM]

Honestly, I don't really think anything of it. And that's not because it's the PC thing to say or whatever; I literally just don't care what people do in their own private lives.

When it comes to dating a bisexual woman, I'd be totally fine with it. My only qualifiers are that I'm not gonna be shared and I'm not gonna share, but that's something I'd require of a heterosexual partner too. It's really no different.

[MadeInAmerica]

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To each their own. Doesn't bother me however I probably wouldn't date them as I don't have both parts. I think a bisexual can't be truly be happy with just one gender, the whole point of being bi is two enjoy both sexes and that's hard to do if your in a committed relationship.

[Derpyanus]

For me, if I was in a good relationship with a male or a female I would be perfectly happy. We are attracted to both but can be happy with being with one person in a relationship. That's how I feel about it

[idkbrosamsca]

Hope you die, dude

[ElissaDido]

I don't have any thoughts tbh, they're free to dp whatever they want in their life. I just won't date one.

[Derpyanus]

If you won't date one then you must have some thoughts on them lol

[ElissaDido]

My thought is that they're free to have sex with whoever they want, but I won't be with one because that would mean our mentalities and religious believes are way too different.

[Derpyanus]

Ah, I see where you are coming from

[Schrodingerscat]

What are your first thoughts when you hear "bisexual"?
- me: wow this person has many people to choose from. Good for him/her
Nothing else than that. Dating them? I may consider it if we hit it off.

[Jxpxtxr]

Bunch of misconceptions and ridiculous stereotypes coming in 3...2...1

[Derpyanus]

It's killing me a bit lol

[Jxpxtxr]

Take it with a grain of salt, or best just ignore the homophobes is all I can say.

[Derpyanus]

I'm used to it, my parents are homophobic

[Jxpxtxr]

Sorry to hear that :/ I haven't even come out to my parents yet and if I'm honest I don't think I will. It's none of their business anyways

[Derpyanus]

Yeah, me neither

[LadyTerror]

I have no thoughts on them. They're no different from people from any other orientation. And I'd have no problem dating one. My boyfriend isn't exactly straight either.

[Jan1ssary_]

Its weird, I wouldn't like to have "male bi" friend cause I may not know if he will like me or not so it sucks. However I'd be friend with bi women, I don't have any idea about relationship but I prefer straight woman.

[archiz]

guys are just wimps when it comes to this
like really they re just full of stereotypes smh...

[Yumix]

that's working for you, hein? :P

[archiz]

@Yumix I am just revolted! :o

[Yumix]

haha sure :P

[Mydnite]

❤️ them. I am one myself :P

I love open minded people in general, so it's all good.

[QuestionMan]

I thought you were pansexual?

[Mydnite]

@QuestionMan I am like Pansexual curious i guess. but i wouldn't mind being labeled that.

[QuestionMan]

Or is it bisexual until you do it with a tranny and then you become pansexual?
Lol there's way too many of these sexualities.

[Mydnite]

@QuestionMan well different people have different ways of labeling people that's where all the confusion comes in.

[USA1960]

Being Bisexual is a opportunity to double ones chances of contracting Aids ! I've known two lesbians to die due to this behavior.

[Derpyanus]

If you're safe and don't have a lot of sex partners, not necessarily. If you sleep around a lot you're increasing your chance, it doesn't really have to do with if the person is bi. Someone who is bi isn't necessarily going to sleep around a lot lol

[USA1960]

I'm simply referring to the heightened mathematical aspect of the life style as opposed to being heterosexual, of both you & your partners.

[fauchelevent]

I don't really care. I mean, I'm bi, I just don't think much about us at all.

[VirginiaBeachBum]

My wife was bi. Does that answer your question? ;-)

[Derpyanus]

Was bi?

[VirginiaBeachBum]

Yes. I'm a widower.

[Yumix]

the same as on straight or gay people.

if my date would say she's bi, I wouldn't think much of it. It's not like it would really change anything for us...

[animus1988]

is physically and biologically for a woman to respect a bisexual man the same way she would a straight man. most women practically view bisexual men as other women i think.

[FreeSpirit95]

I'm bias, beacuse I'm a bi. I love being bi sexual.

[Mydnite]

same here. which one are you in the pic?

[FreeSpirit95]

@Mydnite The one in the white dress

[Mydnite]

your'e cute. love your smile. is that your girlfriend next to you?

[FreeSpirit95]

@Mydnite Aww thanks, yep that's my girlfriend

[Mydnite]

cute couple :)

[FreeSpirit95]

@Mydnite Thanks :) :)

[TadCurious]

I have no problem with their preferences. I wouldn't want to date one though.

[QuestionMan]

My favourite type of women :)
She likes women, I like women.
She likes men, I'm a man.
Don't see why people hate.

[Winter_Storm_Guy]

I went out before with a bisexual girl so it's not a deal breaker. I think nothing of it just ones sexual preference.

[babeeeone]

If I find out a guy is bisexual it's not going to make me not want to date him

[ThatBritishLad]

Whatever, just don't shove it in people's faces like it's your only personality trait. That's annoying.

[GreatnessBack]

I wonder if they're bi on everything, like if they take a college course, do they have to take a dual major?

[Anonymous]

I would want to know which kind of bisexual because everyone is different and has another definiton of bisexual.
It wouldn't change me in wanting to date her except giving her a bonus point for being honest.
First thoughts: see first sentence