Okay so my best friend (yes it really is my friend not me 😂 I already have a bf) really likes this guy that she has known for years. And he likes her back, he's actually liked her since they met. But not until recently has she admitted that she likes him too. The thing is he's never had a girlfriend and she's had 2-3 boyfriends, but he gets really really nervous around her. And more than one person has told him to ask her out already. I'm just tired of watching them mess around 😂 I don't know if I should just tell my friend to go for it herself and ask him out instead; but she really wants him to ask her in person. I want her to be happy, and literally nothing is keeping them from dating except they're both nervous. Thoughts or ideas if I should get involved and give them a little nudge? ☺️😂
Why not, guys go through the same anxious moments that girls do when they ask them out so being nervous about asking a guy out is pretty normal. It sounds as if the attraction is mutual, what's she got to lose? Tell her just do it, if she doesn't she'll regret it later.
If he is nvervous i doubt he will but would likely be very happy if she did. Women love to push this ''If he doesn't ask you out he isn't worthy/the right one''... sure if you say so... tell her to go ask him out... he won't say no.
Just tell your friend to ask. He's not gonna do it. He's probably super nervous too. She should just go for it or drop a million hints. She can tell him there is a movie she really wants to go see. Or say she would like to go eat at a certain restaurant. If that doesn't work then she should just ask him. Could you answer my question.
Well 'your friend' definitely should. Girls should always ask guys out, esp since they are generally more picky about certain qualities. If she's always known, she should say something, especially if he's shy as fuck. He's obviously never going to do it, so it's either she does or nothing happens.
In past times it was protocol for the man to ask a girl out but those days are gone now. She should just casually ask him if he'd like to go out sometime and I feel certain from what info you rovided his answer will be yes.