Who should message first after a date? The guy or the girl?

Follow on question, just need some advice really on if I should message him first?

Again in I know there isn't a set answer but some views would be helpful!!!


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm not sure it matters. Eventually, one of you will call. I personally would give it time, unless I felt very pressing to call her sooner than I usually would.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm the sort of person who'd message after a first date, providing I want to see him again. I'd be eager to let him know how much I enjoyed myself.

    It doesn't matter who messages first, there's no set rule.

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    • 2mo

      I always message asap.. Right after the date is over maybe give a little rundown on the date the pros and cons. See where she is at and take it from there..

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      @tha_vegangsta

      That's good , because I think it's important for one of them to I initiate contact after a first date. It shows it went well

What Guys Said 4

  • Either or, no rules on who should contact who first.

    This is why I hate texting, too many unnecessary mind games involved.

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  • if he asked u out on the date that he is waiting feedback from u

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  • Whoever is going to take the lead more in the relationship.

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  • a guy , if he love you off curse

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What Girls Said 1

  • Either.

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