I'm in a casual relationship (meaning we are exclusively non-exclusive) with this guy who went to England for a month. It's been two weeks and I've only received one text a couple of days ago explaining that he's very busy and apologized for not reaching out to me. I told him not to worry about it. I said it was no big deal.
But of course I'm now wondering if that means he probably doesn't have feelings for me?
- If I like someone I contact them as much as possible without looking creepy.Vote A
- If I'm out of town and busy then I don't think to contact them. It doesn't mean I don't have feelings for them.Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
If I'm out of town and busy then I don't think to contact them. It doesn't mean I don't have feelings for them.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I would, but there's many reasons why he may not be contacting you daily. His schedule or the time difference may prevent him being able to message you everyday. He may not have enough signal on his mobile. He may not have access to his mobile all of the time.
Just trust his word instead of making assumptions. Assumptions is a killer in relationships, because overthinking creates problems that weren't there in the first place1