Anyone can reject anyone for anything. So what if he did that? Wouldn't you be abit creeped out if someone did this to your face and you never even knew they existed? It would make you think how long have they been watching you... and you'd cringe.
There is absolutely no obligation to give a person "a chance", no matter how nice and sweet they are. Maybe she could have went out with him once... but does it make any difference? Nope. She probably had a good reason to reject him. Maybe she felt he was being creepy, which that gesture really was.
It's kind of cold of her lol, but if she's not attracted/doesn't have feelings for him than there's not much she can do about that. She would've just accepted the date out of obligation or pity and that wouldn't have done him any favors. Plus we don't know their history.
While I believe she has the right to reject him, I definitely wouldn't. If a guy out that much effort into asking me out, I'd want to give him a chance to get to know him. Also, I am extremely ugly so his looks wouldn't change my opinion. As someone who is really ugly, I can't reject someone even if I don't feel attraction to them. I would want someone to look past how I look, so what kind of person would I be if I didn't do the same? I've actually never ever been asked out.
The thing is, no one is obligated to date anyone. So while I wouldn't reject him, other women likely would. This girl did because she wasn't obligated to date him.
I think she should give him a chance like just one date or a things like that. Not like it ll hurt her to do it but anyway if she really don't like him it's better to not lead him on. Though what he did with this cub is really impressive and it should have take so much time to do it.
Doesn't matter if he's good looking or not. What he did is just creepy.
I know this will not sound good but in life, things doesn't always goes our way. You may have a huge crush on someone but is left heartbroken when they don't feel the same. We can't force anyone to like us and im very sorry this happened to him. Hopefully, someone will like him for who he is.
It's incredibly obsessive and creepy and would put anyone off despite how good looking or not the Rubik's cube master is. Now if he did this for a girl that he had been together with for many years and he did it for their anniversary or her birthday or something, she'd probably be extremely happy and we'd all be looking at it as being very romantic... But when someone is spending that much effort for someone who isn't even emotionally invested in them... It's only going to creep people out.
While he was creepily obsessing about her and solving Rubik's cubes, other guys were out there bettering themselves, being productive, earning money, creating lifelong experiences etc etc... They're the ones that girls will be attracted to.
If you don't find them attractive, you don't find them attractive. Simple as that. This is why all these declarations and confessions and performing great feats to try and win someone's heart are foolish - if they like you, you won't have to do anything except be yourself.
You know why men get women , because they don't do that shit That guy is crazy about her , he got a wrong mentality , people will hate me for this , but it's his fault that he lives a girl who don't give a fuck about him
He took a risk and failed. I make things for my crush all the time, its not entirely creepy (We're good friends though, so eh). This girl he likes shouldn't need to put up with him. I only hope she was nice about it.
Anyhow, in this situation, if I was the girl. I would have made an honest attempt at getting to know him. This doesn't mean that you should give him "A chance", but there are many things to learn from others. If only they would let you. Besides, this guy made a masterpiece. You should at least respect that, it's a complement.
It just goes to show that all this elaborate bullshit that you normally see in movies doesn't work. Just ask the girl out, but get to know her a little bit first.
Doesn't matter what he did... She has a right to reject him... It's like being nice and expecting the girl to like you...
On the flip side, the girl probrally didn't deserve him.
What girl would reject a sweet gesture like that?
I think most girls would be super flattered on how he cares and would give him a chance!
People like you for who you are. Or they don't. Grand gestures are only useful for convincing them that you are serious about them.
So if you're a rich hot playboy hitting on some girl who really is attracted to you, but she's turning you down because she thinks you're just playing her, then this huge cube portrait would probably 'work'.
But males are very very rarely in that position. Most males are in the 'need to attract' stage, not the 'she thinks I'm out of her league and can't be serious' stage.
The problem is most romantic stories are made for women, and hence do not involve ugly guys becoming more attractive. Rather they involve hot players realizing how amazing the totally average heroine is and becoming serious about her.
This isn't to criticize women. You will notice that porn, made for men, tends to involve gorgeous and naive young women (in theory) magically turning into sluts, not ugly sluts convincing guys to date them more seriously via a makeover.
Its up to her, but maybe he came on too strong. Don't waste your time on a women that doesn't give two pieces of paper for you. You're a good guy, you'll find a better girl one day (or marry your hand... kekekkekee!!!)
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