I got hurt pretty bad in a past relationship and ever since then I've held all the guys I've dated at a distance, never really letting them get close. So a true relationship never really develops. A lot of times its because the guy is also emotionally unavailable as well. Does anyone have any advice on how to work on this? I want a relationship but it terrifies me too.
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Totally up to you. You have to WANT to become open and available and - yep, VULNERABLE again. You have to be willing to let yourself be possibly hurt again. Scary as shit I know but the choice is yours to make and you alone and no one can get you there but you.1