Yesterday I had a date with a girl I met online. We spent about 3 hours together and she had a few opportunities to end the date earlier, but she didn't take them, so she seemed to enjoy the date. I initiated a lot of bodycontact, I even stroked her arm, and when we talked we looked eachother in the eyes, our knees and legs where touching each others, she played with her hair and so on. She told me about a few ideas for our second date. When we left eachother we had a long and deep hug where I stroked her back and we hold hands for a few seconds afterwards (yeah I know I should have kissed her, but I missed it, thanks to my non existant experice). We said see you at the next date. When I arrived at home, I wrote her if she came home safely and she responded and asked me if I arrived safe too.
Later I wished her a good night, but the message was probably too late.
And today... Well she didn't read the message, and I phoned her in the evening but she didn't pick up. She told me yesterday that she visits her best friend today.
I'm confused and a little sad :*(
She replied that she didn't develop feelings
Most Helpful Girl
Girls like this make us look bad, but honestly... if she was in to you, she would have found time in her "busy" schedule to at least reply and say she's busy or whatever. My guess is the that she wants to run the date over with her friend and maybe contact you the day after claiming "remember I was going to my friend's house." You did your part, now the ball is in her court. If she contacts you... decide if you want to give a a second date. However, I wouldn't sit around waiting on her to get back you. And if she's does get back to you... don't reply back right away, leather squirm a bit.0
Most Helpful Guy
Did you bring up a second date or something?
Personally I don't really even mention it, if they start planning one thats good, never made any references to a second on a first. If you did then it 'makes sense' (in a girls mind) why she would start making plans. Because girls aren't good with confrontation/being blunt and saying 'didn't like it'.0