Hey people, I'm a 21 year old living in a very busy urban area. I get out quite a bit, mostly by myself, and I like to take walks around the city and visit stores and the like. Aside from that, I like watching Netflix and play video games at times.
Now, I've always been single all of my life and I've been wanting to take my chances at a relationship. I always figured I'm looking not an extremely ugly guy (pics on my profile, imgur link) so I figured I could be hitting it off with some women at least. Nope. No matches at all. On Tinder I only match with bots, and on the other apps I never match with anyone.
As you might imagine, this has made me doubt my self image quite a bit. Maybe I'm not as good looking as I thought. Friends of mine have no issue with these apps but I do... Makes me really doubt myself. Any of you guys / girls had the same experience? Any tips? I know meeting people in real life is always a better way to go, but I don't go clubbing really and my culture is quite a 'distant' one. We don't talk to strangers and the like.
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You're not ugly, but you don't smile very well. Honestly, you'd look better if you took black and white pictures. It'd make you look more mysterious.
But... you're 21. I would think you wouldn't need a dating site yet. Why don't you actually go out and try to meet women?1
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