I see this all the time, girls look down on good-natured guys for not being 'hard' or 'alpha' enough, but then they complain that the guys they date treat them poorly. Honestly, what do you expect? It makes girls seem really emotionally foolish, when they're supposed to be more mature than guys. Also, it's disturbing in that it motivates a lot of guys to put on a facade like they're badasses just to appear more attractive to girls.
Why is it that girls see good-natured men as weak, yet they complain that the men they're with treat them badly?
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I think it's because of all the movies and books. Society and media are always pushing the fantasy that the "bad boy" or "alpha male" are the most desirable. In just about every high school TV show or movie the arrogant jock who sleeps with everyone is the most attractive, and the sweet guy is usually a nobody that never gets noticed. Even in a lot of romance novels for teens and adults, it's the same thing. Now I don't know if this is the reason, but it may be a part of it.1
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