Your friend's wedding is coming up in a few weeks, but you don't have a date.
You've been seeing a guy for awhile but realize you're not that into it. Would you still ask him to be your date to the wedding, and then just end things with him right after the wedding? Basically would you go to a wedding with someone you're not interested in just to avoid going solo?
How serious, or how much would you have to like a guy to ask him as your date to a wedding?
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't do this, I think it's mean and hella awkward, especially if you know a lot of people who will be at the wedding. If I didn't have a boyfriend, I would just ask a friend to go with me.
Weddings can also be fun if you go solo, especially if there will be single guys there that I could meet.
I don't think asking a friend (as long as I would just ask them as a friend) to go as my date is a problem. But I wouldn't take a guy that thinks we're dating and introduce him to everyone only to dump him after the wedding. That to me is really mean.0
Most Helpful Guy
no, I wouldn't just invite a random person. Too many people would see us and ask later who she was, when our wedding will be or why I don't bring her to some other event. Especially since normally there is normally an "official" photo with all family members and their spouses.
It can be even awkward with real spouse when those photos are hanging at your aunts house and already broke up and someone mentions the photo or shows it to other people.
So I would only bring someone serious/dating for at least several weeks.1