Why are girls so obsessed with charisma, or "game"? Why don't they like a direct forward approach? Is it just the young women in their 20's?
Most Helpful Girl
Sometimes the direct approach comes off as insincere or with poor intentions. When I think of guys with "game", I think of a guy who is hoping I'll be the next notch in his bedpost, not actually getting to know me. If a guy has too much confidence/charisma, it can come off as cocky. When you approach a girl, try to learn about her, just as she should try to learn about you. Don't ask her if she wants to go back to your place yet. Just tell her you loved meeting her tonight and wonder if you can have her number. Then ask if she'd like to have coffee during the week sometime. Then text her during the week to set up a time.1
Most Helpful Guy
It's only if you're not hot enough for the bitch in question. If you are, you can get away with damn near anything. If you're not, anything you did will be objectionable/repulsive.0