There is a guy I like. I think he knows I do and he smiles at me a lot. During the summer we exchanged some emails but after he didn't replied to my last email that I sent in August. Now my friend told me he is i her class and im planning on waiting outside class and talk to him as nothing has happened and say I was waiting to my friend so he won't think I am stalking him. Is it too stalking to wait for someone every once in a while outside his class with an excuse? is it too risky and may face rejection? is it weird? he seems to enjoy talking to me since he is the one approaching me.
Is this weird? can I seem like an stalker?
What Guys Said 2
Don't do that, it's not worth it as even though I will tell you he won't think twice about it, I know for a fact you'll be tormented thinking about if I was actually wrong.
He seems like a really nice guy though, tell him this and I will quote it too
"Hey, we were talking for a while and I kinda like you..."
wait for a while until he responds, his answer will either be a yes, no, or he might be nervous too and say something that tries to confirm that you actually do like him. If he does the last thing you have nothing to be afraid about and you can just say:
"Let's go out!"
If he says no it's not a big deal. He's a nice guy, it'll be awkward for a day or two but you'll be friends which isn't too bad for a girl since you guys tend to work yourselves up the ranks :)1
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What Girls Said 1
I don't think you should do that because it might scare him off. Why don't you ask him out instead? Odds are that he will be eager to get to know you better.1
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