A very serious love interest and I had a falling out. I am trying to move on but my mind keeps going back to him so I am going to give the no contact rule a try and maybe use that time for him to process his head as well.
One ne of the very first things I learned about no contact rule is that once the 30 days is up, it would be advantageous to send him a quick happy memory text without any sort of reply attached to it. While on another, it says to ask him for help of some sort to make the man feel like a hero. The proposed suggested something like "I could really use your help with something".
men, what would be the best approach in your opinion for the first message to him after 30 days of no contact?
Most Helpful Guy
How about rather than setting a time limit, just wait until he contacts you? Then in 30 days if you not heard anything, drop him a line? If he is interested in you, you won't be waiting 30 days..1
Most Helpful Girl
Are you certain that he hasn't moved on yet?
Because after 30 days, it's quite possible that he has...0