So if you go to date with the same guy/girl for several times, you even kiss and keep things going on for months, do you not call him/her your boyfriend/girlfriend? Or do we need specific line to make them our SO, like "would you be my bf" or "would you be my gf" kind of thing? I thought once you go on a date with someone for more than 3 times, and decided to keep things going on, you'll consider him/her your boyfriend/girlfriend, no?
Most Helpful Guy
Dating is when you date. A boyfriend is a dude you like enough to have a continuous relationship with4
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I don't think that just because you have been exclusive to each other, in anyway means that you are both boyfriend and girlfriend.
An example, my friends named Lucy* (changed) was seeing this guy named Bobby*(changed), so they ended up dating, a nd staying exclusive to each other. a year passes, (maybe it was just him being a dick) but Valentines Day comes around the corner, and Lucy expects Bobby to take her out for Valentines Day. one day, she asks him where he is taking her for valentines day, and he said " haha what are you talking about, you're not my girlfriend. You're staying home tonight."
And, lets just say that, that was the last conversation that they had together.
So, personally, I think that not having a label can complicate things