He died not that long ago. I miss him so much, and I keep seeing his brother everywhere. Literally. He looks so much like him. It's hard because I don't know if it's right to even feel this way but I've been having a lot of weird dreams with him in it since his brother passed. In fact it's actually kind of mind blowing that I've been having more dreams about his brother than him when he's the one I was in love with. I feel guilty about it because it's his brother. Obviously right now is not a good time to even consider that but I'm thinking maybe a couple years in the future who knows. I just don't know what feelings are right, and just when I feel like I'm being pulled into two different directions.
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Honestly, if your ex were alive, I don't think he'd have a problem with you finding happiness nor his brother finding happiness with you. Maybe that's just me. But I would think he'd prefer you both being able to move on together than being sad apart. If his brother feels the same way about you I'd say go for it. You can't let your ex's memory keep you down forever.1