Do I seem desperate?

I have never had a boyfriend (I am 20) and I kind of would like one. Does that make me desperate?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • No, wanting a boyfriend is not desperation. Desperation is defined by the means you do to fulfill that need of yours.

    For example

    1. Wanting a boyfriend is not desperation but if you say I want a boyfriend within 7 days then that is desperation.

    2. Another point is the path you follow, means in order to find a boyfriend if you are willing to date 1 guy at a time for one or two months before coming to a conclusion then that is not desperation. However to find a boyfriend if you decide to date 10 guys at a time within a month, then that is clearly desperation.

    Hope you understood.

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    • 2mo

      thanks! this actually helped. I just get so nervous because people are so quick to say someone is thirsty so I just started assuming that if someone wanted to have a relationship, people would think they are desperate. Thanks again

    • 2mo

      That's alright

    • 2mo

      Thanks for the MHO

What Guys Said 6

  • No, not that being desperate would be that big a deal anyway.

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  • No, not at all.

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  • Not in the slightest.

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  • I don't think you know what desperate means

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  • yes it does.. insta desperate.

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  • No, you definitely not desperate

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What Girls Said 1

  • I got my first boyfriend at 21. I wasn't desperate. Just discourage. But the time will come.

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    • 2mo

      Thanks! That is really comforting, because sometimes I wonder if somethings wrong with me or if I am not trying hard enough, et cetera.

    • 2mo

      No. Everyone is different.

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