I mean i have known the girl for years now, but we only talk maybe once in 3 months when we meet for group outings, and were not like very close. Just casual talk. Just afraid it might get weird. although the guy has already showed some interest in dating me. am i like going against girl code if i go ahead and date this guy?
Most Helpful Guy
with due respect to your friendships, you should tell her you're gonna date him. and see how she reacts - but that doesn't mean you should act differently towards her if you want to know the guy
chances may be she will be like "do it! i dont care really" :) so far so good!2
Most Helpful Girl
If she is 'Already in another relationship,' and there are No guarantees how this would Work out anyways with 'This Guy,' then Accept a Date from him and See if there is Something more to it.
For now, Silence is Golden. Nothing but Death and Taxes anyways is a Sure thing in Life. And Being you Both don't have this "Pinkie Swear Relationship" as True friends to the Ends, I would say, he is Up for Girl Grabs.
Let your Conscientious and your Heart and your own Head be your Guy Guide.
Good luck and Go Slow with Joe. xx1