Im very down to earth. A tombiy/girly girl.. i think im a beautiful woman inside n out.. the only guys that hit or me or talk to me are unattractive men.. like gross ones.. NEVER good looking or even my type... guys hit on me on fb... but most dont talk to me.. but if they do again the opposite in what i find attractive. . Even my sons and friends say y is it only gross men that hit on u.. my type like the plain jane so so looking girls... HELP ME UNDERSTAND. What am i doing wrong?
Sounds like you are overestimating your sexual market value (SMV). At your age, you will only attract low SMV men. Either guys near your age that women find icky or men in their mid 60's. The high SMV men near your age are dating women no older than 30. The Wall takes no prisoners.
You should be the one making the first move on ones you find attractive. Waiting on them to is obviously not working. That's what you are doing wrong. Quite a few guys (other than the ugly ones apparently) are simply sick of rejection so quit asking.
How can you be doing anything wrong if you are not doing anything at all? If you do not like who is approaching you, then stop just sitting there and waiting for mr. perfect to come a long and take the initiative yourself and start conversations with the guys that you actually ARE attracted to. Problem solved.
Not a lot of single studs walking around at that age
i don't mean To sound a twat, but.. You're nearing 50.. And it sounds like you're wanting some 30 year old washboard ab dude with a chiseled gave to sweep you off your feet... I mean... I hate to be a prick... But generally when women get to that age.. Well... Let's just say the most preferred age for men is early 20s... You're nearing triple 😕. You have "sons" too so maybe that puts a lot of men off? Multiple children is a lot of baggage.