Just what the title says. Can you create that "spark" or does it just have to be there?
- Chemistry between two people is either there or it isn't77% (30)49% (17)64% (47)Vote
- Chemistry between two people can be created23% (9)51% (18)36% (27)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
People change overtime. You are not the same person you were when you were 12. You probably had friends back then that you simply don't resonate with anymore. So if it was 100% innate, then it would still be there. Now chemistry is a very innate thing. It's just possible to develop over time if both people are 1. Being honest about who they both are and 2. Changing over time.
That's why arranged marriages are more successful and both people grow to love one another. A connection was formed over time, because they already had mutual values in place.0
Most Helpful Girl
I kind of feel like it's more innate than anything else. That doesn't mean chemistry can't be created, but I feel like in most cases, it's either there or it isn't.0