Here's the deal, I love my girlfriend, but I'm starting to doubt if we are heading for a dead end or not. My girlfriend and I have been together for about a year or 2, and recently she's become a great artist in her own terms thanks to her friend. However every time she has free time she spends it drawing, and when I want to talk she wants me to watch. It's starting to get in the way of us being an actual couple. So here's my question, Is it a red flag when your girlfriend takes preference over art than you?
Is it a red flag?
What Girls Said 1
I wouldn't consider it a red flag. It's just something she enjoys doing and she enjoys seeing you appreciate it.1
What Guys Said 2
Not necessarily it could just mean she found something she loves and by inviting you to watch she is trying to invite you into it. Perhaps if you suggest a night where the two of you just sit and spend time with each other?
Just keep in mind if she has OCD it might be impossible to drag her away.0
Well that's not really good if it's happening most of the times, but that need not be a red flag,0
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