Here's the deal. dated this girl for 11 months, met her at work (weird I know) she was very good with my daughter, which was most important to me. we both lost our jobs about 4 months ago, then things got really crappy. I wasn't happy, neither was she. She ended up moving out 3 weeks ago with not much to say. I did a lot of thinking the 1st week she was gone and realized I had made some mistakes. I called her to apologize for what I had done to her because she's a great person and I treated her like crap but after I did this,That's where things got weird, she would texts me late at night saying she doesn't know how to deal with all her feelings and such. so I proceeded to feel her out on working through all this, but I got mixed signals. so I decided to just go out and have some fun because there was no point sitting around anymore. she called friday night and I basically blew her off because I was out, she responded with a text saying "quit pushing me away", never heard from her the rest of the weekend. Monday I told her that I was mailing some stuff to her and she sort off was stand offish to me, but I shrugged it off. have not heard from her since Monday morning. my question is, this girl was good to me and my daughter so I'm hesitant to date anyone else, but I guess that's why I'm here looking for advice.
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When you said that she said she doesn't Know how to deal with her feelings do you know what she ment by that? It kind of sounds like she still has strong feelings for you and doesn't know how to handle it because she wants to be with you but the situation has changed and she doesn't know wether to move on or not. Have you and her communicated about this as to where you are at and where she is at emotionally? I know whenever a guy as said to me that he is mailing me my stuff I always felt like he didn't really want to see me so that is the easier way to do it. I'm not saying that is the case with you but she might have got stand offish because she doesn't know where your heart is whether you still want to be with her or not. She might be trying to get over you thinking that you are getting over her... if you still really have feelings for this girl you need to say somthing before it is to late. Don't be afraid to tell her how you feel... she has the right to know... and you have the right to know how she feels... its the only right thing to do0