A girl that i know is 24 and never had a boyfriend and is a virgin, i feel sorry for her and she just has one friend she parties with, she is very quiet and also very smart but she doesn't get social cues, or seems to not be interested in other people, or life... should i give her chance? or is she just crazy?
you are the crazy one. pittying someone far superior and normal than you and judging her for not having a rotten overused box like yours. stay away from her. enemies are better than such friends. oh and smart people do not give a shit about your societal bs. we find them ridiculus and total non-priorities... .
This describes me except I am 30 and I am not smart. Plenty of people have always considered me a loser because of this. The thing is, she could have social anxiety. That's what my problem is. I have a hard time around people because I was bullied so much so I just have a natural distrust of people. I prefer to keep to myself. I don't believe it makes me crazy and I doubt she is crazy. If you don't want to give her a chance for those reasons, then don't. The last thing she needs is someone constantly judging her. Anxiety is a hard thing to deal with, especially when it has to deal with socializing.
Maybe she has everything she needs in life. Maybe she doesn't want a boyfriend or more friends. Perhaps she's satisfied with how things are working out for her. I suppose give her a chance and see how things go and if you don't get each other well enough, no harm done.
Well, you haven't said anything about her that was necessarily "bad". In what way would you be "giving her a chance"? Does she want to be friends? Has she asked something of you? Or did you just assume that she was unhappy and needed your help?
People can be so dramatic. I like loners. I used to feel jealous I wasn't super social, but after seeing how people want to know every little detail in your life, and how they act, I'm happy I only have a few friends now. I'm srs, I'd be ecstatic to find a loner boyfriend.