I don't get enough attention from my long distance boyfriend and i mentioned that a break up might be good. He refused and asked for a couple of days to think of what would be best for us. Have not heard from him for a week. Shall i consider it's his way of breaking up? Why didn't he just accept to break up when i mentioned it?
How long would be enough for him to "think"?
Why doesn't he just discuss with me directly and make a joint decision?
It might be difficult at first after a break up, but it will be better than leaving it problematic.
He is not the cheating type but i am an attention seeker and I am very jealous when he goes quiet (work or out with friends).
what should i do? move on or wait?
Most Helpful Guy
You have to do what is best for you. If he is acting weird and distant and not giving you enough attention then breaking up is the right thing to do. Because you shouldn't waste any more of your precious time waiting for him to decide what he wants.1
Most Helpful Girl
You should just contact him. Tell him you're trying to respect his need to take time and think, but you feel kinda hung out to dry and you would like an answer from him. If he can't give you an answer or is still unsure then you can just cut it off yourself. It doesn't HAVE to be a joint decision.0
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