I was talking with a girl for about a month now, she used to call me late at night, we used to talk for hours, she sent me her pics on snapchat and we talked late at night in whatsapp chats, randomly complimenting me. We went out couple of times casually as friends. She also told me about how she had never been in a relationship and want to be in one so much. However, I didn't want to rush into things because of my past unsuccessful relationships. But as I got to know her, I started to like her very much. Finally I decided that I would ask her out on formal date next week, but before that one day when we were talking, she told me about a boy whom she likes and who confessed that likes her too. However, she added don't tell him that she told me about them and also told me that they aren't in a relationship because he has exams on December and she doesn't want to disturb him now, but once it gets over they might get into relationship. Now what should me my reaction. I know I waited to long before making a move which made her move on. But now should I confess my feelings to her? If no, How to stop talking to her and move on without letting her feel anything awkward.
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You need to just tell her the truth that you equally have feelings for her, would like to get to know her a bit more and is interested in going out at least on 1 date. 1 date shouldn't have to hurt. And if she believes that it won't go anywhere then she is at liberty to give the other guy a try. At least you tried once. Overall even if she rejects you, what matters is that you gave it a shot. You don't need to stop talking to her if you didn't do what I just said. When she says no, then that's when you just tell her that you can't continue being friends because of your reasons. Now if you can be friends with her without getting jealous or plot to break up her relationship with somebody else, then give it a go. But if you can't without leaving things platonic, just let her go and move on. Just no hard feelings on this, okay.1