So this guy in my class asked me out on a date last week but and I said yes because I kind of liked him and wanted to get to know him more. I just started college by the way. Yesterday we did this activity where we anonymously wrote nice things down on a paper and put them in every person in the classes paper bag. Well when I was reading all my notes he didn't make his anonymous and he wrote "you got nice legs to rest on, call me." He seems nice but lately he has been trying to hold my hand and he keeps winking at me. I want to cancel my date but how do I do it nicely? Do you think he's kinnda weird or is that a guy thing to say?
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him that ur busy or have something else to do or u have homework to do or something to study for. Lol, but if u are a blunt person, then just tell him straight up that u wanna cancel the date because you've creeped me out a little with the things u do😂 but that second one takes guts0
Most Helpful Girl
Yikes! It is creepy when they get too affectionate too soon. I don't blame you for wanting to bail. He's moving too fast and doesn't even know you. I'd say make up an excuse but that's not easy in your situation since you're around him a lot. You don't really have a choice but to be up front and direct about it. Apologize and tell him you're going to cancel the date and that you're not interested. You can either go on to tell him that you're uncomfortable with his behavior or not give him any details. Just insist you're not interested and don't want to waste his time.1