I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I've been dealing with this both on online dating sites and also in real life ever since I was in HS.
After finishing my shift, this ugly Pakistanian guy with an accent wanted ask me out at a date (I don't like their culture either so no thanks). Then a couple friends invited me to a club. While two of my friends were dancing with a couple cute guys, I kept getting asked by either someone that was probably already in his 40's, an chubby black man and a mediocre type. I ended up dancing with someone average but better than the ones that were asking me out.
On two online dating dates, I tend to get similar results: blacks, ugly guys from the Middle East, fat men out of shape, several guys ages 40+ and types I'm not attracted to. Only two of them were actually very attractive, which are the only ones I'll be going out on a date this weekend.
1mo I wish they would have common sense that a girl like me ain't going for less.
Yeah, how dare the guys you don't personally find attractive have the audacity to talk to someone they find attractive. They honestly should probably be forced into the sewers along with the rest of the undesirables.
Your two friends are probably more attractive than you or come off as more approachable.
Sorry, but there is no magic filter to stop undesirable men from approaching and ensuring that only the attractive dudes approach. Unless you want to wear a shirt that literally says "Don't bother unless you are hot."
Do the approaching yourself if you want to go for specific types. Just don't be shocked if they wish that YOU were the one that had the commons sense to realize that guys like them ain't going for less.
Start approaching men then. If you don't like the ones approaching you, then you approach the ones you're interested in. Just be prepared for them to think "why do I keep getting approached by mediocre or ugly women?"
You can't control who will approach you but you can control who you'll approach.
Oh look whose judging the goddess herself, who goes on multiple dating website and of course date multiple men.
The more dating websites you are on, the more people you get hit on, but the goddess wants to be hit only by people who are Gods gift to her, anything besides picture perfect won't do, mediocre looking you are out of the rat race, because God be damned if his personality actually matters, it has to be about looks & looks and looks. If she ain't got a trophy to show off that ain't a relationship material.
You girl are in a train whose heading full speed ahead without any brakes and its heading straight to a brick wall ahead.
Beggars can't be choosers. If you wait for guy to ask you then you will end up with the leftovers no one else wants asking as you are noticing. Try approaching the ones that you are actually attracted to for a change instead of hoping they will approach you. If they keep saying "no" just stay single and find other hobbies like I've been doing past 11 years. I don't do fat or uglies or old ladies either (though I did a lot of settling for less in my 20's).
The more attractive you are the more amount of men will hit on you. You're coming kinda' full of your self here. I mean enjoy it while you can, you have a good 2-3 years before you're essentially indivisible.
If you don't want to be approached by people you are not attracted to, why don't you do the approach to people you are attracted to?